Doula: Sierra Shuler

Sierra Shuler 

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Birth/Postpartum/Bereavement/loss Doula

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A New Yorker and South Carolinian, Sierra Shuler has the feistiness of a New Yorker paired with southern hospitality. Her upbringing offered her the best of both worlds being born and raised in NY and later moving to South Carolina as a child.

Sierra returned to NY at age 20 where she had her first child and worked as an Executive Assistant for 10 years at one of the world’s major banks.

Sierra suffered many losses but after the loss of her mom in 2015, life took on a whole new meaning. So in 2017 she transferred her job and she and
her son moved to Charlotte, NC where she found her calling as a doula.

A doula is what she had been for those in her life, but a doula was also what she needed during the critical times in her own life. It was in those times that God developed her need for someone to hold space for her; to fuel her passion to hold space for others.

In early 2019, Sierra left her job to pursue being a doula full-time.

Sierra is a birth, postpartum, and bereavement doula in Charlotte offering personalized doula support.  Her mission is to provide individuals and families with the highest level of support, attentiveness, and prayer-centered care. She naturally finds fulfillment in supporting others as it makes her soul happy.

Sierra enjoys spending time with her son, family, traveling, and serving on various ministries at her church.

 

 

Mommy Dearest

They say age ain’t nothing but a number but it is much more than that.  Age is an indicator of life experiences…triumphs, failures, overwhelming joys and life altering losses, all of which you’ve survived.  I am a firm believer that every lesson doesn’t have to be learned as a result of personal experience.  You can learn from the experiences of family members, friends, co-workers, and stories that you’ve read/or heard about.  Every loss or failure doesn’t have to be your own in order to apply that lesson to your life.  So where do you go when you need guidance, encouragement, or wisdom from someone who has been through some of it all?  That’s right!  Our elders.  For me, the wisest and closet person to me is my mother.  I think we all, at some point have reflected on what our mothers and mother figures have told us and thought ‘I should’ve listened’ or ‘she was right.’ I know I have.  For some of us those thoughts may be different due to not having a mother/mother figure.  Maybe your mother didn’t have the experience at that time to offer advice to help you on your life journey or maybe she was ill-advised.  So, instead of giving you one Mommy, I gave you three.

YT Mommy Dearest

It’s one conversation, three Mommies, and a variety of topics, hosted by Saran Almond.  Meet Lady Di, Granny, and Ramona Big Eagle.  These ladies offer advice that you can apply to your life right now.  Their chemistry, personalities, and responses will make you think, laugh, and wonder ‘WHAT WOULD she DO?’  Remember to be proud of the years you’ve acquired and celebrate each day of your life by living on purpose.

Mommy Dearest,

Thank you for being the ultimate example of strength, love, and beauty…and for showing me what it looks like and what it means to be a woman and a lady.

To all of my Mommies, thank you so much for the joy and insight that you bought to the show.

You are appreciated!

Sincerely,

Saran

 

WATCH the show here!!! MOMMY Dearest!

Dating With A Disability: Up Close & Personal

On January 21, 2017, women all around the country marched for some of these reasons.  For some of those same reasons it is  important for me to produce this show and readdress this topic.  This show is about more than dating with a disability.  It’s about equality, acceptance, self-esteem, perception and self-love.  As I spoke to these women, listening to their desires and concerns about love and relationships was all too familiar.  They shared the same needs and desires that I hear from able-bodied women.  In contrast, some of their fears were different.  These women have to deal with the assumptions and stereotypes that are often associated with anyone who has a disability.  I salute these women for their courage, honesty, and for being a light of hope.  I encourage them to continue to let their light shine…Love will find its way.  Please watch, comment, like, subscribe…Enjoy!

 

To learn more about our guests please click the Guests Tab, and select Dating With A Disability: Up Close & Personal.

To learn more about WEAN (Women Embracing Abilities Now) click the Resources Tab, and select WEAN.

Reinvention

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Have you ever been in a bad situation, knowing that you should leave and you stayed? Unhealthy relationships, dead-end jobs, lapses in judgement, procrastination, etc, etc.  It’s funny how easy it is for us to get comfortable being uncomfortable.  It’s strange but true for many of us, including myself.  With this on my mind, it became very apparent that I need to do something different so that I can achieve something different.

From the very beginning I’ve had this vision of what my show would look like.  Although, I’m very proud of my show and what I’ve been able to accomplish I still haven’t created the show I envisioned.  As I sit here with a myriad of ideas feeling like I’m not making any progress, I watch the number of my YouTube views plummet with each new show.  All while my counterparts seem to be doing amazing.  My thoughts as I make my observations are, “Do I really have to be the butt of the joke, contribute to the overload of celebrity gossip, start rolling my eyes and sucking my teeth with hands flailing?”  After taking note of what I don’t want to become.  I took note of what is working for them.  Enter the reinvention of ‘WHAT WOULD she DO?’  I’m sure you’ve been here before.  Feeling like you have to do something but you just don’t know what to do.

So, what would she do? She spoke to her sister who made a suggestion.  I must admit, I didn’t receive what she told me right away because of course I’ve had this vision from the beginning, and I want to do it my way.  Then I asked myself a question.  Is there only one way to achieve your goals?  The answer for both you and me is NO. If there is more than one way to do a thing and the one way you’ve been doing it isn’t working why not try another way and see how that works.

The next step is to get out of my own way.  What needs to happen now? I need to do something NOW starting right NOW.  No more excuses about not having: enough time, enough resources, a good support system, etc, etc. I am a person of action, and there is no time like the present.  Why? Because tomorrow isn’t promised.  We all have the same number of hours in a day.  The difference between those who live their best lives and see their dreams to fruition and those who don’t is commitment to achieving goals, tapping into your resourcefulness, being honest with yourself, and taking action NO EXCUSES.

We can keep going in the one way direction that is leaving us unfulfilled or dare to step out on faith and try another way, and perhaps another way until we reach our destiny.  Be inspired by who you can become.  Be inspired by possibilities.  Life is about choices.  Choose to live your best life starting now.  The only limit you have is YOU…so get out of your own way and go for it!!!

~Saran Almond

Twitter: WWsD_theshow

Instagram: JustForSaran

 

 

 

 

Domestic Violence Awareness Month

The month of October is nationally recognized as

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH.

domestic-violence-stopEvery 9 seconds, a woman is assaulted or beaten in the United States.  On a typical day, there are more than 20,000 calls placed to domestic violence hotlines nationwide.  The statistics on domestic violence are alarming, and easy to forget and/or ignore if it’s not happening to you or someone you know.  Many times even when we or someone we know are affected by domestic violence we remain silent.  Silence due to fear, shame, or hopelessness is understandable; however, we owe it to ourselves, our children, and our community to speak up.  Domestic Violence Awareness is about letting victims know that they are not alone, that we as a community care, and there are people and resources available to help make the transition from victim to survivor.

A couple of months ago, a young lady sent me an email asking me what she needed to do to get a restraining order against her abusive boyfriend.  I didn’t have an answer at the time; however, my goal is to enlighten and empower our viewers.  So what I didn’t know, I found out and produced a show entitled “DOMESTIC VIOLENCE: Restraining Orders.”  I spoke to victims, survivors, community leaders, and subject matter experts to provide informational guidance to our viewers.  While laws vary from state to state, and the information provided should not be substituted for legal advice I have compiled local (Charlotte, NC) and national resources for victims, survivors, and their children.  Please go to our resources tab and select Domestic Violence for more information.

I’ve lost 3 friends to domestic violence.  There is no power in silence.  Say something, do something…before it’s too late!

Bringing Sexy Back

Has your relationship lost its sexy? Maybe it hasn’t. Wondering what you can do to keep it sexy? If you’ve answered yes to either of these questions or if you’re just curious, then I have the show for you.

“Bringing Sexy Back” on ‘WHAT WOULD she DO?’

Saran hit the streets to find out what people are doing to get the sexy back into their relationships. Saran sat down for a one on one with Lori Ann Davis a Relationship Specialist in Charlotte, NC, for an understanding of the reasons why relationships go from hot and steamy to cold and dry.  Lori offers some wonderful tips on how to get the fire back or how to keep the fire burning.

We also tried something new…some first hand advice from some real life couples.

We’re looking forward to your comments.

Bringing Sexy Back airs on July 18, 2014, at 10:30pm on Channel 21 (TWC)
The show will also be available on YouTube Channel: WHATWOULDSHEDOtheshow
(Previous shows are also viewable on YouTube Channel: WHATWOULDSHEDOtheshow) Enjoy!